R U OK day campaign

We’re asking people right across our region to down tools for a moment and send in their support to show it’s OK not to be OK and ask the tough questions of those who live and work around us.

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Sane Australia has released the following tips for responding to someone who isn't OK.

►A simple, ‘I’m sorry to hear that’ is a good response. You might follow this up with, ‘Would you like to talk about it?’ to open up the conversation if the time and situation is appropriate. If not, agree on a more suitable time to talk.

►Sometimes it can help to mention any changes you’ve seen that have caused concern. For example, if someone seems more withdrawn than normal (which can be a symptom of depression) you could say ‘I’ve noticed that you’ve not wanted to come out much lately. Is there something worrying you?’

►There is great comfort to be given by simply listening and caring. There are often too few opportunities in our busy lives for connections based on these simple kindnesses. Sometimes, too, people find it easier to talk when doing something like going for a walk, rather than sitting across a table from someone.

►Focus on asking questions rather than trying to provide answers. Giving people a chance to share their experiences and voice their concerns without judgement is of great benefit. It helps people to feel less alone and more hopeful. Remember that responsibility for finding solutions does not lie with you. The best solutions are generally reached by the person themselves.

►Check whether they are connected to professional support. If someone is thinking about suicide, it’s especially important they know that help is available. Lifeline has support available 24 hours a day, or in an emergency call 000. Find out more about how to help when someone is suicidal.

For more information and resources on R U OK day go to: www.ruok.org.au

If you or anyone you know is seeking crisis support:

  • Suicide and Support Group on 1300 133 911
  • Lifeline on 13 11 14
  • Beyond Blue on 1300 22 463